Monthly Archives: May 2014

Hero Training School – The Softer Side

I recently wrote about how I had the opportunity to attend Hero Training School as a result of my father’s example which was influenced by his father’s example.  For several reasons, I need to take a minute to recognize my mother’s contribution to my ‘Hero Training School’ experience as well.  Why?

  1. She beat the crap out of cancer almost 20 years ago
  2. She retired early so she could take care of my dying grandmother for almost 3 years
  3. My wife makes it clear that I am more like her than I would care to admit.  (That little voice in my head worrying about how people perceive me?  Pure Mom.)
  4.  She reads my blog! 🙂
Three generations, November 2012

Three generations, November 2012

How does a mother contribute to her son’s ‘Hero Training School’? One big thing she can do is to let him know how special he is.  My Mom has been a personal cheerleader through life.  Through choices and changes, she’s stayed amazingly positive (even if us moving to France soon after having the first grandchild was hard for her to take…).

I see my wife taking the same cheerleader role for our sons.  She constantly reminds our older son that he’s ‘strong, smart, and studly’, even as he assures us that he feels anything but that.  Moms, don’t forget that your children (sons especially) need someone to support them throughout life’s changes.

Hero Training School

My grandfather, Frank E. Fields landed on D-Day, June 6 1944, at Utah Beach in Normandy.  He died before I was born and therefore has always been a ‘mythical’ figure for me.  He did some pretty heroic things as a soldier in the 4th Infantry Division, earning the Purple Heart and Bronze Star.  Family lore has it that he was even recommended for the Medal of Honor.

Frank E Fields, WWII Era Photograph

Frank E Fields, circa 1943

For a long time, I internally mourned that I had never gotten to meet this ‘great American’ who gave me his name (I’ve always loved this poem by Edgar A. Guest).  Then, one day I read this:

If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him. – John 14:7 (NIV)

I realized that, although, I had never met Frank, I had most assuredly met his son (my father), Jim.  And I knew a LOT about Jim!

  • How his faith in God shaped his decisions and actions
  • How patient he was when his son forgot the tent stakes forcing them to spend the night in a boat on an island in the Clinch River.
  • How he had many great ideas but had a hard time implementing them (Visionary!)
  • How important family history was to him

In fact, in observing Frank, Jim had spent 22 years in ‘Hero Training School’…and I’m fortunate to be spending my 39th year observing my Dad.  As a kid, he was certainly my hero.  Classic teenager attitude plus my parents divorce led to a period where I was sure that he was my ‘anti-hero’ but a loving wife and fatherhood has made Dad’s heroism much more clear to me.

So, parents, how about you?  You’re a hero to your kids whether you feel that way or not.  In fact, your kids are in ‘Hero Training School’ right now.  One day both you (and they) will wake up to see how similar you are.  Will they be thankful for that similarity or despise it?

Suresnes American Cemetery

During my (currently frequent) travels, my family (well, at least one son) likes to see pictures of the things that I’m doing/visiting.  I usually try to post 2 or 3 pictures at the end of the day on facebook along with a creative sentence or two.  For a recent visit to the French Air and Space museum, a facebook post was more than enough.  However, it would be a great disservice to the place I visited today if I thought a pithy sentence (or two) would suffice.

Suresens American Cemetery  is the final resting place of 1541 Americans that died during the First World War and the place of rememberence for another 974 whose bodies were lost at sea.  In addition, 24 soldiers “known but to God” from the Second World War are buried there.  The cemetery is on a beautiful hill overlooking Paris.

(Note: just click on the pictures for more detail)

Suresnes American Cemetery

Suresnes American Cemetery

Despite my many visits to Paris since 2003, I hadn’t yet visited.  So, on this weekend between work meetings, I decided to find it.  .  I tried on Saturday but, unfortunately, I left later than planned and I didn’t realize that there were two ways to get there from my hotel…the 1.5h way and the 25 min way. :-/

Sunday morning was as beautiful as Saturday so I left my hotel planning to arrive between 9 and 10 (most overseas American cemeteries are open 9-5 , 363 days per year) .  I got there around 9:40 and apparently surprised the receptionist as she hurried to put on her lipstick as I walked in the door of the visitors center.  I had read on the Internet that this cemetery was not visited often and I would have to agree.  I saw no one during my almost hour there and just a few names in the visitors log from the past few days.

Suresnes American Cemetery with Eiffel Tower in the background

Suresnes American Cemetery with Eiffel Tower in the background

When I visit these sacred plots of American soil in Europe, I feel personally obligated to walk in front of each grave and say the person’s name aloud (even though I’ve never had/taken the time).  I guess I believe that a small act of remembrance shows my appreciation and that the person didn’t die in vain…Europe and the United States are still free because of their sacrifice.

During this trip, here are a few of the folks I visited with/things I saw:

Lewis Sol. Seligman and Hugh Stanley Lawwill – YMCA Secretaries who died in 1919 and 1918 respectively.  Lawwill died 2 days after the war ended and Seligman over 7 months later.  Since their roles were not on the front line, it’s possible they died from the Spanish Flu
Hugh Stanley Lawwill - Secretary YMCA

Hugh Stanley Lawwill – Secretary YMCA

Lewis Sol. Seligman - Secretary YMCA

Lewis Sol. Seligman – Secretary YMCA













Henry Howard Houston Woodward who flew with the Lafayette Flying Corps and was decorated by the French government is interred beside Henry Howard Houston.  I can’t find any indication they were related.
Henry Howard Houston Woodward and Henry Howard Houston

Henry Howard Houston Woodward and Henry Howard Houston

Dorothy K. Cromwell and Gladys Cromwell came to France to work for the American Red Cross and both died the same day.  Apparently, the twin sisters were overwhelmed by what they had seen and committed suicide 2 months after the end of the war
Dorothy and Gladys Cromwell

Dorothy and Gladys Cromwell

I thought that the plot for the 24 unknowns from the Second World War was interesting
24 Unknown Soldiers from the Second World War

24 Unknown Soldiers from the Second World War

 until I walked down the hill and saw it from another perspective.  A cross made of 24 crosses.
24 Unknown Soldiers from the Second World War

24 Unknown Soldiers from the Second World War

This may sound strange but this is at least the second time I’ve been at a cemetery and, just as I got ready to take a picture, the flag unfurled.
O say can you see...

O say can you see…

The number of Americans killed in the First World War seems huge until you realize that, in the Second World War, over 360,000 FROM JUST ONE COUNTRY lost their lives.
American Deaths in the First and Second World Wars

American Deaths in the First and Second World Wars

One estimate I saw was that 60 MILLION people died worldwide (2.5% of the world’s population).  That’s just staggering.

Lo, how a rose e'er blooming

Lo, how a rose e’er blooming


In Paris and want to go?
Get on the T2 line (if you’re in downtown Paris, take Metro line 1 to La Defense, then look for the T2 signs.   Note that you’ll need a ticket that is slightly more expensive than your classic Metro ticket (mine was 2.65 Euros I believe).  Take T2 in the direction of Pont de Versailles and get off at Suresnes-Longchamp.  Take a left off the train and then your first right.

Suresnes-Longchamp Train Station

Suresnes-Longchamp Train Station

Get on Rue CLUSERET (note, it’s shaped like a curvy lightning bolt) and hike to the top of the hill.  If nothing else, the hill will make you appreciate the terrain!

When you get to this sign, you take a right and in about 2 minutes walk, the cemetery will be on your left.

Almost there, just take a right here!

Almost there, just take a right here!

When you’re done at the cemetery, cross the street to this wonderful overlook of Paris…

Panoramic View of Paris

Panoramic View of Paris

…a view that you can take in thanks to the American soldiers, sailors, airmen, and nurses who rest peacefully here.

From Vision to Reality – A Different Perspective

A visionary imagines, a builder implements, and a maintainer improves performance.  Thanks to Jeff White for the heads up on this cartoon showing three similar roles.


Faith, Hope, and Love